Carl was a quiet man. He didn't talk much.
He would always greet you with a big smile
and a firm handshake. Even after living
in our neighborhood for over 50 years, no
one could really say they knew him very
well.
Before his retirement, he took the bus to
work each morning. The lone sight of him
walking down the street often worried us.
He had a slight limp from a bullet wound
received in WWII. Watching him, we worried
that although he had survived WWII, he may
not make it through our changing uptown
neighborhood with its ever-increasing
random violence, gangs, and drug activity.
When he saw the flyer at our local church
asking for volunteers for caring for the
gardens behind the minister's residence,
he responded in his characteristically
unassuming manner. Without fanfare, he
just signed up.
He was well into his 87th year when the
very thing we had always feared finally
happened. He was just finishing his
watering for the day when three gang
members approached him. Ignoring their
attempt to intimidate him, he simply
asked, "Would you like a drink from the
hose?"
The tallest and toughest-looking of the
three said, "Yeah, sure," with a malevolent
little smile. As Carl offered the hose to
him, the other two grabbed Carl's arm,
throwing him down. As the hose snaked
crazily over the ground, dousing every-
thing in its way, Carl's assailants
stole his retirement watch and his wallet,
and then fled.
Carl tried to get himself up, but he had
been thrown down on his bad leg. He lay
there trying to gather himself as the
minister came running to help him.
Although the minister had witnessed the
attack from his window, he couldn't get
there fast enough to stop it. "Carl, are
you okay? Are you hurt?" the minister kept
asking as he helped Carl to his feet.
Carl just passed a hand over his brow and
sighed, shaking his head.
"Just some punk kids. I hope they'll wise
up someday." His wet clothes clung to his
slight frame as he bent to pick up the
hose. He adjusted the nozzle again and
started to water.
Confused and a little concerned, the
minister asked, "Carl, what are you doing?"
I've got to finish my watering. It's been
very dry lately," came the calm reply.
Satisfying himself that Carl really was
all right, the minister could only marvel.
Carl was a man from a different time and
place.
A few weeks later the three returned. Just
as before their threat was unchallenged.
Carl again offered them a drink from his
hose. This time they didn't rob him. They
wrenched the hose from his hand and
drenched him head to foot in the icy water.
When they had finished their humiliation of
him, they sauntered off down the street,
throwing catcalls and curses, falling over
one another in laughter at the hilarity of
what they had just done. Carl just watched
them. Then he turned toward the warmth-
giving sun, picked up his hose, and went on
with his watering.
The summer was quickly fading into fall.
Carl was doing some tilling when he was
startled by the sudden approach of someone
behind him. He stumbled and fell into some
evergreen branches. As he struggled to
regain his footing, he turned to see the
tall leader of his summer tormentors
reaching down for him.
He braced himself for the expected attack.
"Don't worry, old man, I'm not gonna hurt
you this time." The young man spoke softly,
still offering the tattooed and scarred
hand to Carl.
As he helped Carl get up, the man pulled a
crumpled bag from his pocket and handed it
to Carl.
"What's this?" Carl asked.
"It's your stuff," the man explained. "It's
your stuff back. Even the money in your
wallet."
"I don't understand," Carl said. "Why would
you help me now?"
The man shifted his feet, seeming embarrassed
and ill at ease. "I learned something from
you," he said. "I ran with that gang and hurt
people like you. We picked you because you
were old and we knew we could do it.
"But every time we came and did something
to you, instead of yelling and fighting
back, you tried to give us a drink. You
didn't hate us for hating you. You kept
showing love against our hate."
He stopped for a moment. "I couldn't sleep
after we stole your stuff, so here it is
back." He paused for another awkward moment,
not knowing what more there was to say.
"That bag's my way of saying thanks for
straightening me out, I guess."
And with that, he walked off down the street.
Carl looked down at the sack in his hands
and gingerly opened it. He took out his
retirement watch and put it back on his
wrist. Opening his wallet, he checked for
his wedding photo. He gazed for a moment
at the young bride that still smiled back
at him from all those years ago.
He died one cold day after Christmas that
winter.
Many people attended his funeral in spite
of the weather. In particular the minister
noticed a tall young man that he didn't
know sitting quietly in a distant corner
of the church. The minister spoke of Carl's
garden as a lesson in life. In a voice made
thick with unshed tears, he said, "Do your
best and make your garden as beautiful as
you can. We will never forget Carl and his
garden."
The following spring another flyer went up.
It read "Person needed to care for Carl's
garden." The flyer went unnoticed by the
busy parishioners until one day when a
knock was heard at the minister's office
door.
Opening the door, the minister saw a pair
of scarred and tattooed hands holding the
flyer. "I believe this is my job, if you'll
have me," the young man said.
The minister recognized him as the same
young man who had returned the stolen watch
and wallet to Carl. He knew that Carl's
kindness had turned this man's life around.
As the minister handed him the keys to the
garden shed, he said, "Yes, go take care of
Carl's garden and honor him."
The man went to work and, over the next
several years, he tended the flowers and
vegetables just as Carl had done. In that
time, he went to college, got married, and
became a prominent member of the community.
But he never forgot his promise to Carl's
memory and kept the garden as beautiful as
he thought Carl would have kept it.
One day he approached the new minister and
told him that he couldn't care for the
garden any longer. He explained with a shy
and happy smile, "My wife just had a baby
boy last night, and she's bringing him home
on Saturday."
"Well, congratulations!" said the minister,
as he was handed the garden shed keys.
"That's wonderful! What's the baby's name?"
"Carl," he replied.